Common Mistakes Men Make
Post date: 2008-09-13
Common
Mistakes Men Make
Unfortunately, some men don't realize that certain factors
will deter a woman from accepting an advancement or invitation from a total
stranger. Here are the top 4 common mistakes men make when approaching a woman:
1- Forgetting a woman's comfort zone
Just because you know that you're a nice guy, that doesn't mean she will too.
It is important for you to realize that most women will be on their guard when
you first approach them. This is normal, and the important thing is for you to
come across as a harmless guy. A little humor usually
helps.
2- Trying to fool women
The second biggest error most men make is that they don't give women enough
credit and respect. Most men think that they can fool a woman into giving them
their number. Listen, women know that you're trying
to pick them up, so don't beat around the bush. Be direct and let them know
exactly what you want. By doing so, you'll come across as a confident and
straightforward man.
3- Approaching without a plan
Some people can improvise successfully, but regardless
of the case, having a plan always helps your chances of coming across as a
person she might consider dating.
4- Acting like a pervert
It just seems that men keep on sabotaging any good chances they have by keeping
their eyes aimed down at a woman's breasts. Instead, keep your eyes locked onto
hers. You want her to think that you're the knight in shining armor who's going to romantically
sweep her off her feet rather than a dog who's just sniffing any old fire
hydrant ready to mark his territory.
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